Comparison: The barrier to finding worth

We live in a culture that continually focuses on the outward appearance, popularity, money, and fame. We live in a culture of comparison. Most people greet each other with, "Wow, you look nice" or "I really like your outfit." The problem that comes is that comparing one person to another breeds an unhealthy value system. Students and even most adults struggle with their self-image. Insecure people find artificial security when they compare themselves to someone that makes them feel superior. Comparing oneself to another is a trap. Believers need to stand up and quit comparing based on the outward appearance. We need to encourage based upon their heart and character (2 Corinthians 5:12, 1 Samuel 16:7 Ephesians 2:10a).

We all want acceptance, belonging and people to love us. The desire we have for these feelings are only completely fulfilled in a close, personal relationship with Jesus.

Making wise decisions

There are so many choices that families have to make in today's culture. With technology moving rapidly and all things becoming more accessible, what should be our response to these choices?

One of the biggest questions that I encourage students to ask in any situation is, "Is this the wise thing to do?"

Many times I get the question, "Josh...so what is wrong with this movie...?" Along with many other questions that arise. I could simply respond with my thoughts, background, preferences, etc. The simple response to this question, should be a question in return...pointed towards the heart. Leading students to make wise decisions must begin with them finding truth through asking the right questions.

Instead of, "What is wrong with it?" We should pursue this question, "What is right with it?"

I'm convinced that God is working in the lives of students. As leaders, we need to encourage them to pursue godly wisdom in life's decisions.

Here are a few websites that me and Cassidy use often in our decision-making progress:

Plugged-in Online - Christian media reviews (I use this many times per week)

CPYU - Center for Parent and Youth Understanding: Great tool to stay current on youth culture. Parents, you need to sign up for the e-news.

What about you? I'd like to know your thoughts?

J-ROB Productions

I really enjoy movies. They tell a story, draw you in and make you feel part of the movie. Media is one of the largest culture shapers today. It can lead to shaping someone's beliefs, convictions and even lifestyle. For example, there were many reports of car races the night the "Fast and Furious" movie came out. Back in the day, after watching "The Mighty Ducks" me and my brothers were begging our parents to go pick up some roller blades and hockey sticks! My younger brother, Justin has a passion to use media to reach people with Jesus. I just wanted to highlight his work on my blog for a couple reasons. First, he is my awesome brother and second, he does a great job in writing, filming, and editing videos. Growing up, we always wanted to video our boxing matches, bike racing, etc. Justin has taken it to another level and I look forward to God using him in a mighty way. Ultimately, that should be our goal as Christ-followers - to lead people to Jesus.

Click here for his YouTube website.

Check out some videos!